We are regularly asked to perform a sex toy review on a new product, often we decline, sometimes we jump at the chance. In the case of Spanksticks we were intrigued and asked for a couple of samples to be sent from Denmark. What we received were five latex covered canes with fibreglass core to play with. And what fun we had!
Sex toy reviews are what we do but sometimes we review a sex toy that pushes the envelope of our sexuality. We can assess it for quality and fitness for purpose but some products don’t quite hit the mark. Spanksticks were very different. Let me explain, while Suze is not a Domme she is a very strong woman and assertive at times, though she relishes a good spanking if in the right mood. And while I am not a submissive I enjoy the experience of being gently spanked, flogged or caned, not least because my synaesthesia adds another dimension to such intense stimulation.
What follows not only shows that you don’t have to be a D/s couple to enjoy this sex toy but that Spanksticks can seriously enhance your bedroom play.
I had the sticks at the side of our bed for about a day before we used them. I think we both wanted to try them because they were so different from anything else we’d seen. But Suze doesn’t like to inflict pain on me and has to be encouraged to do so to allow me to experience some of the more hardcore toys we review.
I lay on the bed and asked her to use the stick she selected from our samples. It was 60cm long and 7mm in diameter. She began, not by thwacking me across the ass but teasing me with it. Because the Spanksticks are coated in latex they have a unique feel and an ability to gently drag the skin to create interesting sensations. She stroked my skin gently, prodded me, even tickled my feet. She ran the Spankstick through my hair and across my back making me tingle. In fact the only sensation that I didn’t enjoy was when she ran it across my legs and it tugged at them like a broken epilator. Ouch!
When she began to strike me with the stick it was gentle, deceptively light, but I encouraged her to increase the force she was using until the blows began to sting. The canes are very controllable making it possible to deliver controlled blows from soft taps to excruciatingly painful thwacks. Suze interspersed her blows with gentle rubbing of her hand on my ass which heightened the sensations. The one thing you don’t seem to be able to do with a Spankstick is rub a reddened ass to sooth it as the latex drags on the skin a little too much.
When Suze asked me to turn over so she could tease my front I was already hard and dribbling. She tapped my cock, rubbed my nipples and played my body like a violin by rubbing the latex covered cane across my naked skin. She also rolled it up and down my body creating yet another sensation.
Then she stopped and used the cane on herself, using it to rub her clit. The gentle drag of the latex making it a fine tool for masturbation! Then we fucked and the excitement created by this simple but effective sex toy was so great that Suze squirted almost immediately and by the time we were through was dizzy from multiple orgasms.
Spanksticks are a simple sex toy, easy to keep clean, strong, controllable and very effective. If you are into latex they push all the right buttons, from the smell when you open the packaging to the feel of them on your skin. They are priced very reasonably too and are so versatile that we kept finding new uses for them. In fact we both thought that they would be great as anal probes if used with care, pity Suze didn’t reach for the lube!
Your only real dilemma is which one to choose. All Spanksticks have a rigged handle formed at one end for controllable grip. They come in a range of lengths, most with a fibre glass core, some carbon fibre. Each thickness has its own level of rigidity too allowing you to select exactly the experience that is right for you. Just choose the length and rigidity you desire and enjoy. We’ve got four more to experiment with, happy days!