Bedroom Bondage

Bedroom Bondage

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For many years we have been trying to get people to understand and embrace the concept of restraint and bondage. Because of preconceived ideas it has sometimes been an uphill struggle, myths and plain lies surrounding bondage in the bedroom can be difficult to dispel.

However since the recent upsurge in interest in erotic literature that accelerated during the 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon interest in bondage and restraint in the bedroom has intensified. As couples realise that bondage is as much, if not more, about sensuality rather than total submission and the inflicting pain, they are more open to activities that have an almost infinite capacity to spice up their bedroom play.

Aside from the usual improvisation with belts, ties and a little rope Suze and I first experimented with bondage and restraint when we got hold of an Under the Bed Restraints set. This practical product does exactly what the name suggests. It is slipped under your mattress and provides four fixing points onto which easily attached Velcro-fastened cuffs are anchored with metal fasteners. The submissive partner to be restrained is fastened into these comfortable but incredibly strong cuffs on their wrists and ankles.

When you’re not using the kit it can be concealed, cuffs and all if you wish under the mattress, out of sight yet ready in an instant when the mood takes you both. Although we’ve tested hundreds of sex toys since we began reviewing adult products, this kit is still with us, always ready. Other toys have been thrown out due to lack of space but a practical and durable set of restraints like this will always have a place in our bedroom.

This deceptively simple idea is made even more appealing because of the quality of the kit. The metal fasteners used to attach the cuffs to the under-bed webbing are strong enough to resist even the passionate paroxysms of the strongest slave, and the webbing itself and stitching seems indestructible – OK probably not quite, but it is phenomenally strong.

If you are thinking about buying some restraints we would suggest you seriously consider the Under the Bed Restraints as they are both reasonably priced and will take a lot of punishment yet offer comfortable restraint to the submissive partner.

 

 



Suze has been using and reviewing sex toys for over a decade. Her sex toy reviews are valued by consumers and the adult industry alike making her one of the most respect adult industry writers and consultants in the world.